“The goal towards which the pleasure principle impels us — of becoming happy — is not attainable: yet we may not — nay, cannot — give up the efforts to come nearer to realization of it by some means or other.”
- May 6, 1856 – September 23, 1939
- Austrian
- Neurologist, Founder of Psychoanalysis
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“The goal towards which the pleasure principle impels us — of becoming happy — is not attainable: yet we may not — nay, cannot — give up the efforts to come nearer to realization of it by some means or other.”
Explanation
Freud here articulates a fundamental tension at the heart of human existence: the unrelenting pursuit of happiness, driven by the pleasure principle, is ultimately doomed to fall short, yet we are psychologically incapable of abandoning the quest. The pleasure principle seeks the reduction of tension and the maximization of gratification, but Freud argues that true, lasting happiness is an illusion, continually obstructed by reality, morality, and the limitations of the body and mind.
This view reflects Freud’s more pessimistic outlook, particularly in works like Civilization and Its Discontents, where he argues that the demands of society and the repression of instinct prevent the full satisfaction of our desires. Despite knowing that happiness is fleeting and often unattainable, Freud maintains that humans are compelled by inner necessity to pursue it. This compulsion is not a rational choice, but a deep-rooted drive—a testimony to the enduring power of hope, illusion, and psychological momentum.
In modern life, Freud’s insight resonates with our continued pursuit of fulfillment through relationships, achievements, or self-improvement, even when these fall short or create new sources of discontent. It also reflects why people engage in cycles of striving, failing, and striving again, driven by an internal force that refuses to be silenced. Freud’s quote captures the paradox of the human condition: the chase for happiness is eternal, not because it is achievable, but because it is inescapably human.
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