“The herd seek out the great, not for their sake but for their influence; and the great welcome them out of vanity or need.”
- August 15, 1769 – May 5, 1821
- French of Italian descent
- French military officer and emperor
- Reorganized Europe after the French Revolution and built the foundations of the legal system in modern Europe
Quote
“The herd seek out the great, not for their sake but for their influence; and the great welcome them out of vanity or need.”
Explanation
In this statement, Napoleon Bonaparte offers a cynical perspective on human relationships and social dynamics, particularly between those in positions of influence (the “great”) and the general public (the “herd”). He suggests that people are drawn to influential figures not because of any genuine admiration, but because of the advantages or benefits they believe association with such individuals can provide. Conversely, those in positions of power or fame often welcome this attention either to boost their ego (vanity) or because they require the support, validation, or resources that the public can provide (need). This mutual but self-serving relationship highlights how influence and power can often create superficial connections based on utility rather than sincere bonds.
This insight is highly relevant in modern contexts, from politics and entertainment to social media. Influential figures often attract followers and admirers who may hope to gain something from the association, such as status, opportunities, or a sense of belonging. Meanwhile, those in the public eye may cultivate their followings for validation, visibility, or influence, rather than genuine connection. This dynamic suggests that self-interest frequently drives the interactions between leaders or celebrities and their audiences.
Napoleon’s words remind us to be aware of the motivations and complexities behind relationships with those in power. They encourage us to reflect on the authenticity of connections in situations involving influence or status, and to question whether our interactions are based on true respect or mutual self-interest. This perspective invites us to pursue relationships grounded in genuine values and mutual respect rather than appearances or utility, fostering connections that are more meaningful and less transactional.
